1、If your happiness is entirely dependent on another's love, you will never turly be happy.If your love is valuable to you, it is because you give it. You must be ready to expect nothing to return.Once you accept this, your heart will never be broken again. ——原来我们久久寻觅而不得的幸福是被我们自己弄丢了。
2、Beauty is in the eye of possessor. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. ——别让他人的观点左右你,别做一个被教条了的人。
3、It is my policy never to lie, never to defend. To recant would be to imply that I do not mean what I say. And I do. ——诚实很难,感慨又一个诚实的人离我们而去了。
4、Persisitence is your greatest weapon. It is in the nature of barriers that they fall. Do not seek to become like your opponents. You have the burden and the great joy of being outsiders. ——我们的反抗不是愤怒。
5、Every day you live is a kind of triumph. This you should cling onto. You should make no effort to try and join society. Stay right way you are. Give your name and serial number, and wait for society to form itself around you. Because it most certanly will. Neither look forward where there is doubt, nor backward where there is regret. Look inward and ask not if there is anything outside that you want, that you have not yet unpacked. ——“活着的每一天都是胜利”,对于非大众的人群而言,我们没有必要融入这个社会,做自己想做的,有一天大众也许就接受我们了。
6、You must search inside yourself for what is unique you,when you find it, polish it until it becomes your style. ——只有自己才知道自己是什么,需求什么。
You must search inside yourself for what is unique you,when you find it, polish it until it becomes your style. It's no good being a pig farmer for 30 years, looking back and saying, I was meant to be a ballet dancer. By this time, pigs are your style.所以说,这个片子的内核不是讨论gay rights,而是在讨论一个人的腔调从何而来。不管他是同性恋还是异性恋,Quentin都是个头路非常清楚的人。而成为同性恋,寻求一个real man永远不得( the essence of a real is that he does not fall in love with his own sex)则让他变得孤独而清醒。选择你的型,成为你所标签的你,承受应有的痛苦。睿智来自于生活的苦涩和逝去年龄,和性取向没有关系。不是说成为了同性恋就是时髦和惹人爱怜,建筑工人和卡车司机型的gay要多少有多少。
最后用Quentin的语录共勉: If your happiness is entirely dependent on another's love, you'll never truly be happy. If your love isvaluable to you, it is because you give it. You must be ready to expect nothing in return.Once you accept this, your heart will never broken again. 去爱,去付出而不计较所得,成就更圆满的自己。
以下是电影里的一些Quotes:
1.Every day you live is a kind of triumph. This you should cling onto. You should make no effort to try and join society. Stay right way you are. Give your name and serial number, and wait for society to form itself around you. Because it most certanly will. Neither look forward where there is doubt, nor backward where there is regret. Look inward and ask not if there is anything outside that you want, that you have not yet unpacked.
2.If your happiness is entirely dependent on another's love, you will never truely happy. If your love is valuable to you, it is because you give it. You must be ready to expect nothing in return. Once you accept this, your heart will never be broken again
3.You must search inside yourself for what is unique you you,when you find it, polish it until it becomes your style.
4.Even a marriage to oneself can not last forever.
5.The more English you sound, the more likely you are to be believed.
6.It is my policy never to lie, never to defend. To recant would be to imply that I do not mean what I say. And I do.
下面是Quentin本人的一些Quotes:
1.Euphemisms are unpleasant truths wearing diplomatic cologne.
2.Fashion is what you adopt when you don't know who you are.
3.I recommend limiting one's involvement in other people's lives to a pleasantly scant minimum.
4.If at first you don't succeed, failure may be your style.
5.It is explained that all relationships require a little give and take. This is untrue. Any partnership demands that we give and give and give and at the last, as we flop into our graves exhausted, we are told that we didn't give enough.
6.Life was a funny thing that happened to me on the way to the grave.
7.Love is not enough. It must be the foundation, the cornerstone- but not the complete structure. It is much too pliable, too yielding.
8.Men get laid, but women get screwed.
9.The consuming desire of most human beings is deliberately to plant their whole life in the hands of some other person. I would describe this method of searching for happiness as immature. Development of character consists solely in moving toward self-sufficiency.
10.The trouble with children is that they're not returnable.
11.The very purpose of existence is to reconcile the glowing opinion we hold of ourselves with the appalling things that other people think about us.
12.The young always have the same problem - how to rebel and conform at the same time. They have now solved this by defying their parents and copying one another.
13.To know all is not to forgive all. It is to despise everybody.